I just got sent flowers?

from a guy I've been talking to for a month or so..we havent met yet as he lives in another state. Hes told me he used to be a player but wants to settle down..I told him to prove he has changed and he sent me flowers...Is this a player type move? I'm thinking its not because he would not have gone through all that trouble! But I'm not sure HELP!

I just got sent flowers?
Stop reading into it! Enjoy the flowers and the nice gesture that he made. You haven't even met this guy yet. Everyone has a past while it is good to consider past behaviour you can not base your decision soley on what was done in the past. Take it slow and see where it goes. In the mean time call him and thank him for the flowers and brag to all your friends that you got some!!
Reply:Sounds like he is really trying, give him a chance :)
Reply:how can you want to settle down with somebody you havent met?? - he could be a mass murderer for all you know. get a reality check...anyone can pick up a phone and order flowers..it means nothing!
Reply:Now that he is older he is getting ready to be a good guy. He admitted that he use to be a player and that's a good sign. Give him a break and give him a chance.
Reply:u should wait and see what happens before you decide
Reply:Yes that is a sweet move i cant disagree..but players like to come off as a sweet person in the begining. But i say give him a chance and see if he screws up you cant judge him as a player or not by flowers you have to meet him and see his actions..and hear his thoughts inorder to know.
Reply:Well, some players will go to extremes to get girls. Him sending you flowers is nice but doesn't prove anything. I'm guessing he still has some "player" in him. Be careful.
Reply:The best advice I can give is to tell you to go slow and don't get swept away just because he's sent you flowers. Wait it out and see if he's willing to go the distance.
Reply:Totally a player type move. You live in a different state. He'll fly in / drive in. Hookup and go home. You won't ever hear from him again.
Reply:he seems to want more now. Give him a chance, call him and thank him for the beautiful flowers. By the way did you give him your address or did he find you?
Reply:It can be considered a nice romantic gesture, or it can be considered to be an attempt at manipulation. It depends on the person it is comming from.

Apply your known history with this gentleman, %26amp; make up your mind from what YOU know of him.

Personally, I don't know a thing about him. :-)
Reply:awwww hes bein sweet. give him a change
Reply:That what my ex-guy did the other day...and he's a cheater that will never change
Reply:Does a leopard change his spots?
Reply:flowers don't neccesarily mean he has changed!

that is just material things

meet him before you start deciding anything!
Reply:omg....yes it's a player move....

a player will do and say anything to get what they want...
Reply:That's sweet. Just wait it out and see what else he does. Only time will tell unfortunately.
Reply:that is SO cute! go for him, he's trying!
Reply:I would be very cautious about the situation. He could still be a player, and the flowers could be just another one of his games. For your sake, I hope it's not though. Just be careful.
Reply:Everyone can change! Sounds like he is a sweet guy



Good luck
Reply:first off, sending flowers is not all kinds of trouble, now with that being said, you can give him a chance but keep your head on straight. Plus, why would you want to date someone who lives in another state?!?!? Long distance relationships don't last, ever. Enjoy the flowers, it is a nice gesture
Reply:Its going to be difficult to determine if this is a guy making a play or not. The only thing i can tell you is that you are going to have to just give him some time to see what he does next. It really doesn't take a whole lot of work to order flowers for someone... However, if he is just trying to make a play then he will move on pretty quick if you don't respond back right away.