Is she shy, uninterested, or just waiting to decide when I ask?

There is a girl I am interested in, a steady friend since high school, that is at school elsewhere within the state and I’m trying to figure out whether or not to pursue or let her give me a sign back at this point. I’ve made some subtle and some obvious hints how I feel about her over email, phone with light comments, and flowers over spring break, but am not sure if I should ease off and wait for her to ask what I really feel or if she just isn’t interested. After the flowers she called me a few hours later to tell me how she loved them but sounded a little nervous and speaking quickly. She has not given me any real indication that she doesn’t appreciate the new attention from me or dropped any of the “your only a good friend” lines. I haven’t actually told her besides indirectly through the card with flowers and emails that I like her a lot but I’ve made it pretty clear by now. She liked me at one time but that was 3 years ago.Is she waiting for me to say what I mean straight out?

Is she shy, uninterested, or just waiting to decide when I ask?
yeah man, she is waiting for you to say those words she been aching for !!



Go for it man and good luck !
Reply:Well i think she is intrested in you a little bit but you should know that you should say first just tell her directly that do you think that there is a kind of love between us nad clear yourself that you love her and give her time to think about it and don't rush for the answer. Say what ever is in your heart for her. Best of luck
Reply:it sounds like she might not be strong enough to come out and tell you how she feels if you want to be her man show her you are a man grab her by the waist and tell her how you feel be confident with it shy girls usually love it
Reply:I think you should tell her allready, cuz then when are you going to find out. Or tell a friend to ask her if she is interested in you. You know what I think she does like you cuz I use to tell the guy I like the same thing. Maybe she is scared to have a relashionship or maybe she is just waiting for you to tell her . "Just tell her"( ya dile). Dont be scared.
Reply:I think she's just waiting for you to make the first move. I mean she probably doesn't want to straight up tell you that she likes you and she wants you to ask her out or something.
Reply:Probably she is shy ... and she is just waiting for u to say .."I like u very much"...or .. what ever u need to say.

Don't make her wait, the waiting time, is a "killing time"...

G. Luck ah !. 10 points 4 the flowers, that is a beautiful detail, you know it right ?.
Reply:hmm, that's difficult, and i can relate...i like this guy too, i'm probably too obvious, i know it, but for you, maybe keep things going the way they are. if she's a friend, it would be weird to start changing drastically, she may feel how you do. you said she is nervous on the phone, and maybe that means something. if you really want to know things, talk to her or her other girl friends, that's the only true way to know things. hope i helped!
Reply:yep..she's waitin on you because if she liked u 3 years ago and you weren't interested in her then she thinks that you still aren't. You are going to have to straight up tell her.
Reply:I say just ask her.It sounds like she's waiting for you,and if she's not,what are you going to do?There are lots of other girls out there!But,good luck asking her!(If you do)
Reply:I think that you honestly from the start should have just been blunt and expressed how you really felt about her to her face. Becuase now so much time has passed and sure you have been sending her flowers etc. BUT you never actually TOLD her flat out how you felt about her, like over dinner or something. I mean if I was in her position, I would be in a way a little confused...because I would be thinking "Wow...this guy is sending me tons of e-mails and flowers etc...but I'm not sure if he like "likes" me or if he's just "weird" and obsessed with me.?!" So I mean unless you openly just said "HEY I DO REALLY LIKE YOU, DO YOU WANT TO GET TOGETHER SOMETIME AND GET A BITE TO EAT?!" Then she is probably not sure what to think about what you have been doing, and how you've gone about expressing your emotions towards her. you know what i am saying?

*And by now she may or may not be involved with someone, b/c she could have been waiting for you to tell her that you liked her the whole time, but you never did. (so to speak).

~~But if you do like her that much, then I say it's worth a shot..and go ahead and TELL her this time that you like her, and you'd like to get together in the near future for dinner sometime (that way she doesn't feel pressured). and see how that works out for you :):) Good luck.
Reply:It won't hurt to ask..



BUT! If not that way, you can always try the jealousy approach ;]
Reply:Just ask her to go on a date sometime. Can't hurt to ask.

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