I'm in love with a girl but I'm confused and I don't know what to do....?

I'm 19 years old and I have been friends with this girl who I love, we have been friends for a little more than 2 years. We were really good friends and still are but thats the problem we are JUST friends. Its starting to get to me a lot and I don't know if I can continue to be JUST her friend, I don't want to lose her but I think I need to. Her husband is in a different state, I bought her flowers and chocolate on valentines day, I just love her more than anything and its heartbreaking that she dosen't like me like that. What should I do? I'm trying to move on from her but she keeps texting me to hang out with her and I just can't say no for some reason. I'm trying to be cool about just being friends with her but its killing me inside. What should I say to her? she usually wants to hang out during the week but I don't know if I can take it anymore. I have been beyond nice to her and it is just leading to a heartbreak:( I love her A LOT, but I don't know what to do anymore?

I'm in love with a girl but I'm confused and I don't know what to do....?
if you are friends, you should feel comfortable enough to tell her how you feel, beware tho if this is what you decide. She may tell her husband who may think its cool that the two of you hang out and nothing else. For him to find out now that you have feelings for her could set him off the deep end. However if you truly have strong feelings for her, you need to tell her. Life is too short man.
Reply:Hey, I understand how you feel, but you need to move on. No matter how much you love her she will never be yours. You shouldn't put yourself through this kind of pain. You are to young to think that you are not good enough for someone. You will be able to just be friends with her if you would just find someone to give your attention to, other than her. I have been friends with a guy now for 20 years. He has been in love with me the whole time, but I'm not in love with him. No matter who I'm with he is there and it hurts me so much because, he is in pain. You are doing this to yourself and you need to learn now that this is not the way a relationship should be. You might only want her because you can't have her. If she doesn't know how you feel about her she is going to keep calling you, because you keep her busy while her husband is away and she feels safe with you. Don't mislead her. Tell her how you feel and that you need to walk away just until you can get a hold of yourself. You can talk on the phone and take it one step at a time. This is going to be hard for both of you, but if you are good friends, you will both be able to handle this. If you would like you can e-mail me please do at sharroncj04@yahoo.com 20 Years is a long time to love someone who doesn't love you. We have talked about it and he knows how I feel, but he wants to be in my life. I still don't understand why. A year ago something happened and now we only talk by text. Please don't put yourself through any more pain.

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