My Christian girlfriends ex who was mormon lived in another state because he was in the military. They went out for what lookd like 6 months or so judging by the comments on her myspace, but she had told me about a year. The comments between BOTH of them read like I miss you sooo much, luv ya, and so on. But the other day she was telling me how she didn't like him because he was not funny like me. He was a quitter and tried to get out of the military under the guise of insanity. She said he was an alcoholic (but he was mormon???) and his mom sent him anti depressants all the time. She also said he was constantly sending her flowers and she did not like that, because it was just constant. He was also too nice she said.
But why go out with someone you don't like for six months or a year and tell them you love them, miss them, etc.? Why would she tell him she loves him and tell me she didn't really like him and didn't have chemistry with him like she does with me? Mixed signals here...
What is my girlfriend telling me this and what is the truth?
If you can't figure it out - what makes you think we can?
Reply:Dont let it bother you so much. If she loves you she will stay with you. She wouldnt be with you in the first place if she didnt want to be. So dont worry so much and let her begin to love you so that no matter what you will never have to worry about him.
Reply:If you have an ex then you know the reason. When you talk about an ex to a current girlfriend/boyfriend, you'll never really talk about how much they meant to you at the time, because it isn't how you currently feel about the ex. You want to make sure that the person you are with feels and knows that they are better or at least that they are the one you are with now.
My ex is a completely evil woman...but at the time it was all 'i love you' and 'i miss you', but if i talk about her to anyone I'm currently dating, I'm gonna talk about her bad stuff, and how I really wasn't happy with them most of the time, but you could go to her myspace and see where I'd left similar comments to the ones you are reading.
Don't trip man, you're the new story, he's the old story, and although she felt things for him back then, she doesn't now and by her telling you these bad things, it's my opinion that she's letting you know that you are way better than that dude.
Reply:This is so obviously clear. Find a nice girl, this one is playing games with your head.
Reply:Aha! A mormon in the military, not on a mission? Of course this molly mormon doesn't want to continue the relationship - he's not her ticket to the Celestial Kingdom, or being a Mother in Heaven!
She's got to keep her eye on the prize!
Reply:She's playing you both! She wants to bang you now and have him to fall back on emotionally. Get away while you can because it can get very complicated!
Reply:does hse tels him that she love him now or when they were going around, is she told before then its none of ur business, c what u hav enad if she tolf now, then it sounds trouble
Reply:maybe that girl is just making fun of you. get vengeance you deserve it.
Reply:It sounds like you are digging too deep and going places where your nose doesn't belong. If you have reason to believe that these two are STILL romantically involved, then carry on with your devious ways. If not, let it go. She has a right to her privacy, whether it includes you or not. Her previous relationships have nothing to do with you. Of course she's not going to share every intimate detail.... did you share every tiny detail with her about your past girlfriends? Some things are better left unsaid. Enjoy her, or you may loose her. Good luck.
Reply:i've been in several a relationship with people i liked...and thought i loved...you know there is a saying I use it's easy to say i love you....it's so hard to mean I am in love with you. she may not have liked him...or she may want to boost your self esteem and just because he was "mormon" doesn't mean he didn't do un-mormonly things (so not a word but you get my point) trust her words...but don't shield your eyes
Reply:sounds to me like she's a pathological liar. U obviously can't get the truth frm her. U'll have to trust ur gut feeling here, bt frm the info u gave us, she did like him a lot and she possibly still does. If the reasons u gave us are the only reasons she states for liking u then she doesn't love u all that much coz loving some1 goes much deeper then that. Try and talk to her abt it but prepare yourself for dissappiontment. U seem genuine, i think u deserve much betta. Let us knw hw it goes.
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Tuesday, February 7, 2012
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