How can I be more romantic to my girlfreind in the states, while I am deployed to Iraq?

I am goin on R%26amp;R soon....just bought her some flowers couple weeks ago.....dang I miss her....

How can I be more romantic to my girlfreind in the states, while I am deployed to Iraq?
I'm glad you're thinking about ways you can keep the relationship going even while you're deployed. It's a huge sign of a good guy.



I'll add my votes for letters. Even if you don't write anything more than "I love you" it's nice to have that tangible proof that you cared enough to take the time to write it down, put it in an envelope and mail it. If you can write more it's even better. I treasure the actual letters my DH sends.



And if you're home on R %26amp; R it's a wonderful feeling to find "I love you" sticky notes hidden all over the house. When my DH did that for me every time I found one it was like he was home whispering in my ear for just a second. And the joy of hiding them is that sometimes I found one months later when I was having the worst day ever and it made everything better.
Reply:Talk dirty to her, make her feel like she is the sexiest woman on earth, tell her you get a hard on just by thinking about seeing her face to face, sure women like flowers, but more than that, they like to feel desired, that is the most romantic thing a man can do, make her feel desired.
Reply:dont tell any of us sailors where she is.

Thanks for serving bro, hope you enjoy your R%26amp;R

You earned it

God Bless You
Reply:Just being there will do the trick! Come home safe!
Reply:Be a hero. I know it's quaint, but not the way I mean. Kick butt and w/o hesitation. This nonsense of RoE that assumes we (you) are a sacrificial piece of ordinance is crap; you are a living entity worthy of existence. Don't be digging toilets, building roads, building schools... build fear among those that hate life/earth/reality; show the nuts that life on earth is the end-game. I gotta think that if you have a grip on this, it's a compelling attraction for your g/f. You would be preserving the essence of what makes life @ home worthy of our praise.
Reply:Ignore the fools here who are trying to make you feel bad for being a service man. Flowers are great. Women love cards with something sweet in them. Get her something with both your names on it.
Reply:Flirt a lot, make her remember what made her fall in love with you in the first place.
Reply:First of all allow me to say , Thank you for all you are doing there for all of us here , God Bless You All .......



Find a way to make her a video , I know some have video recorders there ...make her a video telling her how you feel , and get a guy with a guitar to play your ,and her song in the background , do that , and you tube it to her ...or do a video e-mail ....A friend of mine done that , she loved it ..
Reply:Well, first and foremost ... THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU for serving and protecting our Country !! We GREATLY appreciate what you are doing.



For your girlfriend, now is the time for her to be there for you; not the other way around. It is very respectful that you want to do something, but not required. If you want to do something nice for her, pics of you in an email or some ecards should be well received.



Take good care and be safe over there!
Reply:You ask what can you do while you are deployed. Arrange for special things to happen beyond just sending flowers. get her a day at a spa. On good relations with her parents? Get something similar for her mother.



Send handwritten notes or letters. E-mail is not personal enough. Make a sign saying you miss her and have someone take a picture of you holding it. You can e-mail that.



Write about the good times you have had and how you can't wait to have even more of them.



If you are going on R%26amp;R where she can't meet you, send her touristy stuff from there saying you wish she could be there to enjoy it with you. If you are going where she is, schedule some private alone time away from everyone else - even if it means you don't see your parents or hers for a day or two. Focus on her and her alone during that time. It's the time we are together that counts; not the "stuff" we give each other which ends up collecting dust or traded in on newer "stuff" later.



Take care and come home safe.
Reply:Suggest the flowers, you did that. Bring her something exotic, yet refined, that is part of her favorite things she does or collects. Be prepared to spend a few bucks on jewelry, ladies always adore that. Best thing...come back alive ! Semper Fi, Mac...thank you for your service!
Reply:hide notes all throughout her stuff and her house....

both in predictable and unpredictable places.

if you're already gone, you can write a bunch of love notes and send them maybe to her mom or a close friend that can hide them places.

handwritten letters....they're sweet
Reply:Remind her that her love is what keeps you going, that you are counting the days that you will hold her in your arms again (and count the days, tell her how many days are left until you are home again), tell her that her picture is placed in your left pocket, close to your heart!

Tell her of the plans you have for when you return from Iraq(Keep it clean), discuss your future plans with her by mail or internet!
Reply:Don't worry about her, I'm sure she's having a great time.
Reply:Well, the chances look quite slim here. By the way, is US thinking of invading Pakistan as well?
Reply:tough question man. Find the Bin Laden and all of girls here will be your best girl friends.