How do I earn my ex-girlfriends trust back?

I needed to explore different places first before I felt comfortable settling down. I broke up with her when I was in a different state, because I didn't see myself coming back home for a long time. I got to missing her so much I moved back after being away 9 months, 5 months after we broke up and tried to talk to her about working things out. She doesn't want anything to do with me. She says, things are over. We had a really good relationship and I know that at one point she loved me and she said so herself that at she would have married me, but not anymore.



I've tried all the lame typical stuff dudes do to win a girl back- letters, flowers, but that just made things worse...



One day I want to marry her, but now it seems I blew things entirely and I feel hopeless %26amp; helpless...

How do I earn my ex-girlfriends trust back?
Aw i feel terrible for you but i think you broke her heart your practically tourn it into pieces and 9 months is a long long time shes been through all the pain and stages and told herself you were a losser and moved on i think at the mo you should start with saying your sorry and you would like to be mates at least. She should understand some girls will just kick you in the backside and tell u to leave cos they are much more independent now but if you can get back to being mates then slowly you can build a freindship and maybe she will re-consider but in fairness from her point of veiw you didn't care anoth to keep her the 1st time round so why would you this time (this is just what i as a girl would think)
Reply:you need to back off a bit. give her some space. Try to be her friend instead of a boyfriend. And in time she will come around...
Reply:It will take a LONG time. You may never be able to earn it all back. Only with time!
Reply:Have you explained all this to her? In person? Not over the phone or via letters or email. Call her up and let her know that you'd like a chance to talk to her about your feelings and the situation you're now in. If she says no though, don't push the issue. Just ask her to give you a call if/when she's ready to talk,. And again, only time will tell...
Reply:i think you should move on. she has obviously. plus if you guys get back together there will be resentments. pick up the pieces save them as memories and lessons for future relationships.
Reply:You might as well forget it, she obviously dos`NT feel the same way as you.

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